M-G: 1.7.11 // Second Choice, Genesis 13:9

Is not the whole land before you? Please separate from me. If you take the left, then I will go to the right; or, if you go to the right, then I will go to the left. 

Now it got to the point that there was no more room to accommodate all the flocks, herds, and tents of Abram and Lot together. The situation was causing friction among their servants. So, Abram suggested they go their separate ways. Abram could have chosen first but gave that right to his nephew Lot. Lot chose the plain of Jordan for it was well watered everywhere like the garden of the LORD. Lot went east; Abram dwelt in the land of Canaan.

There was only one problem with the lush plain of Jordan; the men that lived in Sodom were exceedingly wicked and sinful against the LORD. You know that this was the tragic turning point in Lot’s life that day. Lot was snagged by the lust of the eyes. The lure was there, but behind the lush was something sinister. The real blessing was in the place less pleasing to the eyes, the less desirable land of Canaan, Lot’s other option. Abram relinquishing the right of first choice reflected grace and consideration for his nephew; Lot’s choice revealed his heart to be greedy and self-centered. His uncle never contended his decision. Abram's life became fruitful, and Lot's became barren.

Regardless of appearances, where God wants us to live is truly the only place of personal blessing; anywhere else would make us unfruitful and unhappy. We need to close our eyes to the world and open our hearts to the LORD to know when to turn left or right, to move forward or backward, or simply to stay put. God's choice is always better than the first choice. <><